#67 Cant find my "pieces"

[kat727]

K, I am sure some people won't be happy with my support of what Ali said. I know you are hurt, angry, humilated, betrayed and he deserves to hurt as much as you did/do. Really I get that because I feel that about my ex. However that won't get you anywhere.

Do you forgive him? Can you stop throwing it out there and tell your H the one thing you need him to do right this moment that will show you he is wanting this M and you? Believe me I know you have a list as we all do or would if the shoe was on the other foot. I think he is overwhelmed and feels as if he can't do anything right. It will send him away if positives can't be found and built on.

Oh and the forgiveness is for you. It lets it go. You never have to say it to him unless you want to. Forgive to move forward.

hugs, kat