Originally Posted By: jeffde23
I went through a period of limited contact with my wife, we are separated. In our last couple of conversations, she kept trying to draw me in to talking more, but I didn't. I think some of her negative views of me have slipped away. So, I asked her on a date. I made it clear that it is a date, not just to be friends/catch up. She said yes. I assume I just date her now like I would a woman I just met. No excessive calling, light conversation, no relationship talk etc. Any other advice?


Nope, sounds good. Work on reconnecting with her; have fun.

NO R TALK! You didn't discuss the future of your relationship with her on your first date, right? Same rules apply now.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."