I don't really know if I am in the driver's seat or if I just stepped out of the car all together.

W sent me a text a few minutes ago. Apparently S was having a hard time with all of this when he was with her last night. She took it upon herself to make him an IC appt (didn't even discuss it with me). Should it bother me that i it wasn't even discussed?

I am having to fight the urge to tell her that she is the one doing this...asking her if she is happy now. Does she even see this as a consequence of her actions?

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.