No, I didn't write a plan B letter to WAH. And at this point, it's too nasty to write one I think, is it?

I found out from OW's ex that those nasty TM were written while WAH was with OW. He's being pressured by her. They share my TMs and emails. WAH should have been with our kids this wknd.

I will start recording everything on a calendar now!

What do you mean by not breaking contact. Can you give examples of where to keep it?

My WAH is not showing any signs of wanting to come back. He's running far far away and detached from the kids.


M40, H39
M17 T20
D13, S12
H moved out 05/09
D filed 1/10