I am extremely grateful to God for the wonderful blessing of my h showing up with a suitcase to stay in the extra bedroom. No, things are not 100% and they are not like they were. But, his asthma was going crazy from the woodstove at his parents. I told him to come home.
I am under no illusions that we are "fixed" and have no idea if this will help or hurt. All I know is that I can be in the moment and not look beyond the minute I am in. He is here, we are adults trying to rebuild, we care about each other, that is all that is certain right now.
That is great that he is willing to stay in the same house as you. No it doesn't mean things are fixed. But things are good enough that he is now comfortable staying in the same house. One small step at a time. I actually think that is a big step even if it is for his asthma.
It provides more opportunities for positive communication and way to build a bit more on the bridge back to each other. Wonderful to hear.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
