Kalni,

"Tell me something, just for the fun of it, how can you tell which one should?"

I can't Kalni. I can only offer my opinion, which I understand was unasked for.... I see a person who is hurting due to the actions of someone else for a VERY long time and I empathize and want to see some resolution to the matter. Of course, these are my thoughts and not fact.

I commend you for all your amazing attempts. I mean I think few on this board have worked as hard as you. If you feel there is still a chance and want to go for it. I am rooting 100% for you. I really am. You have every right to choose the path you see fit and I genuinely wish you well with there.

Like everyone else here- these are just my opinions and you in the situation yourself would know best.

I think you have some questions that you may just not get answers to.

Yes, I envision you as this great gorgeous Greek godness looking type of woman-hehe. I have always thought you could get many men. Why is your hubby not acting like he is into you? I don't know if you will ever get the answer.

"The point is, how long can I stand being into this situation?"
Again, only for you to answer.

I want to apologize to Ali for my upset. I saw criticism of Kalni. I did not realize that Ali was responding to an email.

I guess you know my thoughts.
I wish you happiness in life regardless of circumstances.


M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)