The first week of no contact I was contacted 3 to 5 times.

Now it comes every 2 weeks. And always on thursday. I put the stuff on my WAS calendar.

They also try to contact you through friends and family as well.

Withdrawl, trying to get some Emotional needs off you, missing you, want to hurt you, trying to draw you back in the vortex, they had a good or hard week, forgot your not at their beck and call, want to snoop...

Who knows?

But keep track of it all. What it was, when and time.

You will hear stuff and when you do you can get dates.. And see if there a pattern.

And if you get to piecing.

You can use all this stuff to call out the bull.


You will also notice this pattern.

Attempt to make you break LRT with the stick.
Attempt to make you break LRT with the carrot.

Your choice to give in.

But I recommend that you do not break contact ever.

Unless it is for what reasons you specified in your Plan B letter to your Wayward.

She also has the way back specified as well.

You wrote one right ?

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