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Did you take the candle? If not does that mean the M meant nothing to you?


I had told W earlier on when the A was going on and she wanted the D that yes, I did want the candle because it does mean something to me. I didn't collect it last night as the one she had found and thought was ours was not. But I will be asking for our candle.

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It's called conversation, it's about your girls, why not just say something like I hope they come out nice...Be strong confidant wasn't there so I don't know but not saying anything could come across as rude(you don't want that) or self pity...


I could have said that VD. I just didn't think about it. Again, crumbled on my feet. So I chose to say nothing.

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Why not just ask her? That's what I did last year with my now EX, saved a lot of wondering and stressing. Just ask with NO EXPECTATIONS if she says no just say ok just checking.


I guess I do need to ask her now. If she is thinking about getting me anything, I need to make sure I do the same. Geez, but what to get the woman who wants nothing to do with you? I saw a pretty cool picture frame yesterday I thought about. It wasn't expensive but nice looking. It was a decorative one, silver with multiple little frames that you could turn over like a farris wheel.

Kevin

Last edited by K4D; 12/14/09 04:23 PM.

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...