First Timer

[wolverine1997]

Cars, house, insurance, everything is in my name. If I don't pay, or see that she pays I take the hit. But you are right, I am too dependable. I do spend time at gym and with friends but I now see that I need to spend less time at home. I really don't talk to her but I can see how I can even eliminate it more as you mentioned above. I guess I do these things because I have had to be the responsible one in the marriage. I am going to be visible to her a lot less.