DBD, I wonder the same thing too about my M and my WAS. As discussed previously, the outside world, friends and family want us to close the door on the M, and think we are crazy for thinking that there is a way that the M might work. I am thinking that we as LBS have to cross the bridge of "do we want them back" if and when the WAS comes back.
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.