- just remember you can forgive her for the affair - it doesn't define her as a person, it's just a bad judgment on her part - you will except nothing less than 100% wholehearted effort on her part - if she's not willing to do this tell her that YOU are done - you're not going to waste your time, love & energy on someone who isn't worth it - you also won't tolerate being a weekend dad, you'll fight for joint custody and you also won't be taken to the cleaners in the divorce, you will hire the lawyer that the lawyer would hire to protect himself - you're a man and you have as many rights as she does, you aren't going to pay for her affair
Stand up for yourself, you want to prove that you have a pair, stand up to your wife, tell her enough is enough, this crap ends now or she can start looking for a new place to live, you won't be moving out of your home anytime soon and you want just sit back and have your life stripped away from you.
