Originally Posted By: Coach
She has decided and it's not what you want to hear.


Actually coach, she has not decided, or she has decided not to decide.

She's pretty clear that she wants to sit on the fence, and wants me to remain supportive and committed for an indefinite period of time while she does so.

As far as the "I don't want to train anyone" comment, her emotions here are clear, but I believe unrealistic. She clearly wants to have her unspoken needs met without having to vocalize them. I'm tired of guessing.

Last edited by Thinker; 12/14/09 03:59 PM.

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