We have followed similar paths. I too have come to a point where I am having a hard time ever seeing our M work out and/or having a happy future together.

I have talked to others that have been to this point and have made it to successful, happy M once again though.

Accept. Don't have expectations. But don't forget...anything's possible.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.