I ended the discussion by saying that I expected her to make a decision - commit to me and the M, or end it and leave, and that if she could not, then I would leave.
How has that worked for you? She has decided and it's not what you want to hear.
Quote:
"I don't want to have to TRAIN anyone on how to be loving"
She doesn't want to decide, commit, train, lead, provide, love, ..... She wants her man to do that.
When she feels secure in that, then she can love you back.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.