#67 Cant find my "pieces"

[june72]

Ali,
For your second post, sorry, I could not disagree with you more.

I do not think he is already back. He has stated things but not showed with actions, IMO.

I do not think Kalni is being negative or screaming and yelling or hitting him over the head with things. Her feelings are very VALID. You don't go though this and come out happy as a clam. You have a right to your feelings Kalni, they are yours. You should act how you feel and think- not how others "think" you should behave to motivate your husband.

He ash not EARNED his way back home. He could come back still cheating Kalni needs actions and change that give assurances that this will never happen again.

I believe he has the affair b4 he left did he know- Kalni was suspicious and she was right to be. "All's fair in love and war"? How in the world does this apply?

Worst that could happen? A REPLAY OF THE PAST YEAR. More upset to the kids and Kalni.

You don't do something the magnitude that he has done and get a free pass.