I like how you put that! I guess I was looking at going dark as just not talking to her. Which I really haven't done much at all. The few times that I did was to talk about kids being sick, half day of school pick up, her paying car insurance, etc. I never even thought about me being around the house. I am busy a lot but you are right, I haven't given her a chance to miss me. I need to not be as available as I have been. This gives me a new perspective on things. Thanks. Oh, but next time can you take the nail out of the 2x4 before you whack me?
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
