Exciting news! I'd love to hear more about the ADD R Coach. Did she recommend any books? I used an ADD coach to finish my dissertation -- just couldn't get through it unmedicated while I was breastfeeding.
What meds are you taking? I've been wanting to get back on meds for a little while now, but can't seem to get organized enough to do it. ;-)
You might also point out that the mother/son thing is not particularly conducive to a hot sex life...