i'll try to remember but i don't think i've changed all that much..i'm a giver, always have been. It's hard for me to go the other way (180). I know this is the advice. But right now we are still do everything the same..gym, movies, dining, church, cuddling ,dog...EXCEPT..sex, which she doesn't want!!!I keep hoping she'll let a cuddle turn to more ,BUT i'm not even pushing or even trying at all. No relationship talk either...It's hard!!!
Because you do too many things together and you've allowed her to be comfortable with all these things, you became a friend and a roommate, instead of a lover. You're always there! Can't you see that, you guys do everything together, you're always there! You've never given her the gift of missing you, she knows where you are 24/7.
Go out, go to a different gym, start hanging out with your friends more, start going out on dates with other women. People take for granted the things they have and in doing so they don't appreciate them until they're gone, but you're always there!!!!