Calling out the Piecers

[dday101798]

Hey Mish,

I had a good weekend, hope yours was as well. I'll try and catch up on my "surviving" friends later today, but, I'm really backed up with work, so this will probably be my last post of the day for a bit.

The weekend, well, productive, got all my painting done in my "makeshift" bedroom. Then my cousins and I touched up a pretty bothced pain job in the living and dining room. My cousin hd painted them a while ago, but didn't know how to tape the ceilings and stuff, so it was pretty bad looking. It was kind of ackward to do as that was XW's specialty, I'd do the bulk of wall painting and she'd do all the high detail stuff. But we managed. Then hung some pictures up and made the place feel homely.

On the sitch side. Things went ok. We had a mis-understanding Saturday night. XW wanted to get together, but said she had to wait on hearing from one of her friends as to what they were doing. I never heard back. Since the weather turned icy, I opted to just grab a pizza for my cousin and I and watch a movie. Here's the funny part, I had told XW about a local pizza place with amazing pizza and does karoake on Saturdays, even invited her earlier in the day. Apparently she misread a message and thought I was out without her, then an hour later texted me several times asking if I was out with someone else (although I did get an offer I declined). Hmmm, jealousy.

Anyway, XW spent the bulk of the weekend at 'our' house, and apparently thought I'd come over. Still isn't getting the picture that I will not go back there, ever. We did some flirting texts though about our tub again, after I told her I wish she wouldn't be in that house. She says she mises the tub, I said, given the chance we could ahve another. Somehow the question came across from her about getting a hottub suite and I blew her mind by asking when she'd want to go. I always refused to go sighting the nature of such places. She was like "seriously?" I said yes, she then then said, "but you always never wanted to go". I said somethings change when you lose something important to you. All I got back was an "xoxo"

Yesterday, nothing much. Went shopping with family and to bed early. Did have yet another OM related conversation, mainly his sister, our maid of honor. XW asked me to go to 'our' concert with her, and OM's sister and husband as we used to. I respectfuly delcined and we talked about why, sanely. Much the same, XW propsed spending New Years together, as her and her friend are planning a get together with "everyone" there. But of course at 'our' house, and involving a few "everyone's" I care to never have antyhing to do with again, so, we'll have to see how that plays out.