Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

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Don't let the no-contact spook you. When you are not there to represent your side, a judge is reluctant to issue a RO, but can issue a no-contact to ensure everyone plays nice. It works both ways...if she contacts you in a way that violates the order, she can be arrested. I had a N/C during the worst part of my sitch, and it was actually a relief.
On to something less depressing...I hope you enjoy the blessings of the season with your kids. Glad you are home safe.
Take a deep breath and remember what it's all about, okay? Peace.