So now she's spying on me? This just gets wierder and wierder.
not at all. she wanted to know if this woman was prettier than her. normal, typical, expected reaction.
So funny! And what if she is prettier? What if she's not? Then what? If that's what where my W is, she's got it all wrong. This other woman is NICE to me, and my kids. She treats me with complete RESPECT, as do some other women I've met. That's what has me walking away from my W, and that's what has me realizing I deserve more. For the record though... she ain't bad ;-)
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I think it is time you set up a one on one social interaction on a evening where you would need to ask your wife to switch nights with the kids (that is they cant sleep at your place and you will have to pick them up late in the afternoon the next day). Come over dressed to kill and flirt abit but then run out the door. Magic 8 ball says your cell phone will be ringing all night long.
LOL! Like you and Puppy have been saying for a while now, my W is too smart for that. She'd see through it in a second, and it would actually make her feel BACK in control. I need to be more subtle. The basketball game worked because it was real, and it was the kids that clued her in, not me. If I need a night off from the kids, I would ask her mother to take them, as I have in the past. The cool thing is, she would still hear about it, either from the kids, or her mother. Even the whole schtick of me being dressed to kill, she'd hear about that too. The fact that she has to hear about it second hand makes it even better I think. Allows her to know less, and wonder more.
