H said A is over. But he will run into OW again at work. I am highly suspicious its over that quickly after H was busted. H said it was ending just before I confronted him.
I think he's lying here. If it were over, he'd be anxious to try to work things out with you. At BEST, they have "cooled it" for awhile, but his unwillingness to accept transparency indicates that he wants to remain in contact with her, and hopefully rekindle it. And at WORST . . .
Puppy
He did not say he would not accept transparency - I explained to him what transparency meant and that he would feel like I would be watching him 24/7 and he would feel like he was under the microscope.