hey Lan,

Always nice to get an update from you. i try to keep an eye out for you. i would sure love to read some type of progress from your wife. i guess that is the person she is or has become and you have decided to live with it. as long as that is what you want. it sure does not sound like a very happy home life....but who am i to judge. it is your life to live my friend.
good for you and the weight loss...