This really sucks the position they are putting me in. I know about plenty of other things they have been doing this month when W has had the girls, and not one phone call or text about inviting me. Now because I have the girls, I am all of a sudden invited. How am I supposed to feel about that. I am alreadying thinking about how uncomfortable this is going to be for me being with the family that wrote me off and banished me, knowing I am only there because they want my girls there.
I am really uneasy about going myself. I am almost half tempted to just tell them to take the girls and I will have them another night. Why do I want to be around people like that after the way they have been to me this past year and basically still are by simply trying to maniuplate me to get what they want.
Kevin I read this and it comes across to me as selfish and a little childish...Just a few weeks ago you were talking about how you weren't even aloud around your inlaws to them slowly inviting you, so what that they don't invite you to everything...Your W even offered to give you another night AND come to the party...This is once again your wanting instant gratification, if you don't get what you want the way you want it it's not good enough.
More important question what do you think your D's want to do? Would they be ok or disappointed in missing the party?
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
