when you talk to her family about the affair.

You had your heart to heart.

Now when you talk to them it is only about gal. Family is family. They will support her. You can only hope they don't support the adultry.

And when you truelly go dark. Give them space as well.

Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!