First Timer

[wolverine1997]

Decided yesterday to try to talk to wife to see where she is with lawyer and our family situation and some things that I was planning on doing. I walked up to her and told her that at some point we would need to talk. She immediately became hostile and said that it was nothing for us to talk about and that she already told me what she was going to do. (She assumed that I was going to try to talk her out of a divorce which was not the case at all.) I stayed calm and tried to let her know what I wanted to talk about but she became so belligerent that I just had to walk away. This was my only attempt at talking about our situation at all in months.

Its weird because she is always so hostile and irritated. Just looking at her body language I can see that she has so much pent up anger and resentment. If she could ever recognized that and resolve it she would be such a different person, the old person, a better person.