First, you don't act a H who is M to her (if that makes any sense). Some men stop being that sexy, self-confident, strong, male the minute he says "I do" and falls into some other mode. Women do too, and it isn't attractive.
Find that man she fell in love with and let her see that side of him. Yes, you have to try and get along with her as best you can.....but sexual attraction (IMHO) is more important than just being best friends. I think that is why so many MR get stuck in that stage of "limbo" b/c she feels safe in the BF stage.
So remember how you got to that stage of "lover" before you M her? There you go.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
