hey brhnheart this is shrinky my h came home and told me he didnt love me anymore 11/8/09 and left the same day I have been on a roller coaster with my emotions since. I have been reading Micheles book and Im hoping it will help me , I believe in my marriage and I will not give up. We have been a couple since we were 17 years old and this 1/2/10 will be 28 years of marriage I still love him just as much as I did then if not more, I am trying to hang on and so should you.