Thanks Nut. I'm trying to breathe today. Really don't want to see her tonight at the bday party.
Re: her family, as of yesterday, they know everything. Its really hard-they have been like my family for 14 years, and my wife is now pushing them away, also. Her older sister was cheated on by her husband with her Maid of Honor-and they ended up getting married, so her sis understands the pain I'm going through.
I know that it is a careful line to tread. I just think that they (her family) are the only thing that matters to my wife, really. My wife doesn't have any best friends, and makes superficial friendships with men at best. The only constant is her family. And they are disgusted with her behaviors. So I figured they would be part of the "inner circle" of people to whom I exposed my wife's behaviors.
Maybe I'm wrong...I don't know. I'll be getting the attorney details taken care of this week. Today I just want peace and quiet. Tomorrow I want the same.
