btw if there are varying levels of love (i.e. infatuation, mature love, etc.) then there must be varying levels of hate, too, right? because I don't think that I care about the OW but I do feel hate for her right now.
I don't think you can hate somebody you don't know. You can however hate what they are DOING. That's different.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"