They never trade up! I dont think that its about finding someone better, I think that its about finding someone who is the antithesis of you. If you are educated, good looking and fit with a full time job, he will be a high school drop out, with 4 teeth and a drug habit.

I think that the OW in my sitch was balding... no, really.

"Would you like to meet him?" Ha! What did she expect to happen?

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...