See? Mindreading isn't always wrong (tongue in cheek) Seriously, I don't know if you could do this or not...don't know if I could either...but what if you waited even longer than a day before you opened it? What would happen?

180 says to NOT open it if that is what you usually do.

Maybe see what your lawyer says?

Also, I know you know this but it is fair to say it. Only YOU know your WAH best so if you think some advice here could make the situation worse, trust yourself not to follow it. Even Michele Weiner-Davis said that everyone's situation is unique and we need to modify the DB principles for our situations.

(so if you waited too long would he get even nastier?) I'm just glad you are meeting with your lawyer tomorrow. Please let us know what happens!

Last edited by newmama; 12/14/09 05:47 AM. Reason: spelled Michele's name wrong!
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004