Another update: She is now making huge atm withdrawals from our joint account. She's stealing money!
Sorry Doc, if it's in the joint account it's her money too.
Originally Posted By: Norseman05
She made some unauthorized transfers from my business account to her private checking account also recently, slipped them right under my nose (note: she is a banker, and as such did all my banking for 14 years...)
Now that might be considered stealing...ask your attorney.
Originally Posted By: Norseman05
Also updated wife's family (they know the latest escapades. my wife has dropped contact with them because they are unhappy with her behaviors). I believe that they are an important ally in all this, because they are SO close as a family. My wife is in denial, and has stopped talking to them lately due to her shame. Tomorrow is my little guys bday, and they are going to call MY cell phone to wish him a happy bday, not my wife's. They said they want her to know that they know.
Be very careful here. Do not expect them to take your side in this, no matter what they have said. Be friendly and kind, but do not share any details with them.
Originally Posted By: Norseman05
I'm exhausted. Any words to help are much appreciated. My hands are shaking I'm so mad and hurt by these events. I feel like I'm dealing with a crack addict.
You're gonna make it doc. Tomorrow, find the best family law attorney you can and lay it all out for him/her. Try to avoid any unnecessary contact with your wife (kids' birthdays are necessary). Try not to be alone in a room with her...she has already proved herself capable of being underhanded.
