as we move forward II

[forward]

ML,
If I may suggest...try not to be the messenger in any way between your X and S. Let them speak directly. It seems your S is old enough to make plans now?

The goal for me now is peaceful co-parenting, with the hope that she has a good R w/X. I fear DD will have abandonment issues.

It was good that you offered to let X meet at your place.

Now I know that nobody is happy seeing their children develop a R w/OP...and frankly it worries the heck out of me because OG is a very messed up girl child, but at the same time, it is more important that our children have some sort of sense of the other parent.