I did enjoy going out.

Well. I will take this input as 'yes, I am over thinking this. other, more stable people take a date as a date'.

I just need to re-learn how this works. Or learn, really. In college we didn't date. We just slept together. Those were the days...

Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process