Oh the first deployment is quite an eye opening experience. you have been married for 21 years i think that is great thing all in itself.
it can be that since he's been married for still some of his teen age life and not ever having experienced some of the things we are supposed to when we are 18-25 all the imature drinking dating multiple people no responsibilities, he is now living that.
i don't agree with it, but he may not be able to control himself. he's lonely only has his fellow platoon memebers to hang with and they can influence him.
have you bought your ticket all ready?
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline