Don't tell him at all you are taking money. This tells him what you are up to. think of it this way, the element of suprise with look on his face that you have protected yourself. he may not even be paying attention to that account.

he may think he has won a battle but you are going to win the war.


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline