here we go again

[bluerain]

Jstar, you cant worry about the things that the other people will say. You literally have no control over that! All that you can be thoughtful and sincere and hope for the best.

I do not think that you should talk to him until you are really ready and prepared for whatever happens. You have to know, any time that you put yourself out there that it might not go your way. I also think that goind dark has been really good for you, and you are the only one who can know if you are ready.

You have to also be committed to not mind reading, and taking things at their face value.