On post there are tons of support groups for you to get involved with. I served 13 years in the Army with men and i can tell you some of their deployment rules are messed up.

It's like the Vegas saying, what happens in vegas stays, well some depoloyed me, not all say what happens on deployment stays on deployment.

there are men who are good upstanding gents and miss their wives and family immensely and count on them greatly during deployments.

What kind of sitch is he in? Combat zone? these are all factors that will play into the mind of a deployed soldier.

Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline