h hasn't texted since friday night. h's msg. thank u. this time last year we were on our way to church. i see you will always be the same. how are my kids?

my response: i am working on changing me, i hope you are changing you. Perfect.

or should i just remain silent? he's kind of trying to goat me into responding i know i want to, i don't know if it's to soon or not.

it's like if i keep remaining silent nothing is going to change, right? or just let him keep going in the manner he is until the holidays pass or atleast another week.

Advice?


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline