Avermont. I believe in a parallel path. You heal yourself. You move on. If you kept contact with the WAS. You would slowly deplete all love you have for that person. I don't know about you. But if I was chasing ladybug everysingle day since D-Day , I would have hated her by now.
This also allows the WAS to live her life fully without you around. That is a double-edged sword though, as is everything else with going dark.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
