Another update: She is now making huge atm withdrawals from our joint account. She's stealing money! She made some unauthorized transfers from my business account to her private checking account also recently, slipped them right under my nose (note: she is a banker, and as such did all my banking for 14 years...)
I just transferred ALL of our joint account money into my private savings. I also did the same for my business account. So she cannot take any more money, Im pretty certain on that. Closing the business account on Monday and opening a new one.
I cannot believe this person is my wife. She's borderline criminal now. WOW. I know, to be expected with the "fog" and her nutso mindset, but this latest activity has caught me completely off guard.
My actions: I took care of the bank account situation. Also updated wife's family (they know the latest escapades. my wife has dropped contact with them because they are unhappy with her behaviors). I believe that they are an important ally in all this, because they are SO close as a family. My wife is in denial, and has stopped talking to them lately due to her shame. Tomorrow is my little guys bday, and they are going to call MY cell phone to wish him a happy bday, not my wife's. They said they want her to know that they know.
She had previously requested money from them, and they gave her some, but then they found out about her affair, and took the money back, telling her that they won't enable her terrible behaviors.
I'm exhausted. Any words to help are much appreciated. My hands are shaking I'm so mad and hurt by these events. I feel like I'm dealing with a crack addict.
