Originally Posted By: RefusingToGiveUp
I know I need to get a lawyer immediately I am just so scared.


You need to do this because of:

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I fear that he may just open his own account with his paycheck directly deposited and then I don't know what I will do.


... this.

Remember seeing a lawyer is nothing. It's just finding out what your rights are and protecting yourself. Step 1 - protect yourself legally. Step 2 - work on the M.

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I know I've continued to ask for advice and strength on here and I have gotten a lot of great support. I apologize for repeating myself and being all over the place.
I just don't know if I can DB this marriage.


This place is a godsend. Don't apologise. We've all done it.

You can DB as long as you want to. You stop when you can't. It's a lot of work and you can only keep going to long.

You're having a bas day by the sounds of things. Maybe sleep on it?


Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"