I have discussed this vanishing money with WAW - do they even consider this sort of thing when they are thinking of leaving?
She left the kids - the house isn't even a consideration.
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How can she not see that this grass is not green due to lack of tending and watering for so many months now?
FOG.
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She is getting bad advice from people about what bliss divorce will be. I know that several of her new friends were victims of abuse during their marriages.
Oh yes. I know that one. There is nothing you can do about it so you need to forget about that bit.
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Why does she not talk to people who don't agree with her?
That's basic human nature. When you are in the sitch that you she is in, she only wants to talk to people who support and agree with her so that she knows she is making the right decision.
If I told you that you wife is never ever coming back to you, you need to forget about her and move on .... would you listen to me?
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Why will she not go to IC?
Maybe because she would then have to face the real possibility of what she has actually done?
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
