Originally Posted By: njcbailey
I am sad that she told me to my face 2X that the jewelry is meaningless to her. Gifts was the love language she responded to for many years but not now.


As P17 pointed out, you can't believe anything they say right now. She could have said that precisely to hurt you.

And if you are running a large deficit in her love bank, one incident isn't going to turn things around.


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."