Divorce mediation was postponed until next Thu night. A's did not communicate I guess - Blackberry problems.
I have the draft D papers written by WAW's attorney. They did agree to the things I stated I wanted in the papers except 1/2 of her IRA. We contributed to that one only for many years as an asset allocation strategy. I am still going to press for that.
In the draft D papers, WAW wanted completely out from under our house and mortgage. Part of morphing from age 40 to age 22 (see previous post on this topic) I guess.
As far as our house goes, we are under water now at the expected sales price taking into account sales/closing costs, a mortgage refi only 10 months ago (yes a wasted $8000 now), and a generally sideways housing market. $40,000 in equity burned in just 18 months, wow!
I have discussed this vanishing money with WAW - do they even consider this sort of thing when they are thinking of leaving?
I must keep DBing for my boys' sake. I love my WAW, but her "happiness" will be borne on the fragile shoulders of an S4 and an S7.
How can she not see that this grass is not green due to lack of tending and watering for so many months now?
She is getting bad advice from people about what bliss divorce will be. I know that several of her new friends were victims of abuse during their marriages.
Why does she not talk to people who don't agree with her?
My A asked WAW's A to inquire about IC for WAW. Tepid response from WAW's A at best.
