I read on another post that sometimes to get your spouse to act differently, you should allow them to believe you are dating....

what if your spouse has already told you to start. I refused of course....

What is she trying to do?

Me 43 / W 40
T 29 / M 15
S-18
11/4/09-ILYBINILWY
11/10/09-Separated
12/1/09-W admitted EA
12/5/09-W admitted PA
12/24/09 W say "I love you"


"A GOOD MARRIAGE IS NOT ONE WHERE PERFECTION REIGNS"