Can I save my marriage?

[Gnosis]

SG, I jumped to your thread and had a quick look. I'm sorry things have evolved that far with your H. I don't know what my advice to you would have been because it varies according to the situation.

This is exactly my problem. Everytime I read Gno's advice to you, I think that would never work on my H.

Did you ever try?

I could probably be walking around with another man, and my H wouldn't be affected. He claims he is not the jealous type.

That's what they all say (incl. me) until they get kicked in the nuts with it. The only time a man doesn't react is when he is DEEPLY involved with an OW.

However, I have never tested him.

See? How can you say it doesn't work if you never tried? Test him on it.

I find thinking about all those wonderful men out there

Sorry to burst your bubble SG. Don't look at the men on this forum as a general sample of the male population. The men here have been kicked upside the head. We were all "damaged goods" at some point. The difference is that we're learning our lessons... the HARD way.