someone please help

[rob668]

i am reading the advice and talking to a db coach...but...I am really having a hard time trying to implement GAL...etc.. I'm feeling weak and sick. To make matters worse, my wife and i are together,eating ,watching tv and even cuddling. I am really sruggling here. How do i get strength to even try ??? need some support!!

[rob668]

????? I am resisting the need to try to talk to her about the Relationship.The feeling to talk is almost overwhelming. But i know this is a no-no.

[Steve McQueen]

wife and i are together,eating ,watching tv and even cuddling. I am really sruggling here. How do i get strength to even try ??? need some support!!

do you have the strength to ask her to "take care of you" while y'all are cuddling?

[rob668]

y'all have made it clear not to talk or push relationship issues(including sex), and as i posted, she says she doesn't feel a sexual attraction to me. Cuddling is nice, but not intimacy of sex.

[rob668]

why do the posts seem to stop getting responses? If i change my subject how will folks know my story???

[sandi2]

Best friends is a good start ,i think.

Friends.....she can have with women. She doesn't want a friend in you, she wants a lover!

[rob668]

sandi2, ok...how do i get from friend to lover???

[Steve McQueen]

sandi2, ok...how do i get from friend to lover???

by having the strength and confidence to ask her to take care of you

[Steve McQueen]

why do the posts seem to stop getting responses?

give us more to work with

If i change my subject how will folks know my story???

I aint askin for much. I'm just looking for some tush.

might get some attention

[chatterbug]

When I offer advice. You just go Yea ... So its all gravey. No Meat. No potatoes.

No debate, No explanation and no goals.