Originally Posted By: Day by Day
Once you recognize it, you'll see how it's being used to hurt you. Just try to not let it--or let him see that he's getting to you.


... and laugh. May seem stupid and silly, but it actually does work. Laugh, smile, grin or snigger, whatever. Just do it.

Laugh because his secret game is busted. You know the games. You know the rules and you choose not to play. If you don't play the game, you can't lose.


Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"